INTRO:
A man’s heart beats faster than a woman’s, the native people say that, “Woman invented the drum, and gave it to man, so that he could learn to slow his heart beat down to hers.”
The problem is, that many men don’t realise that a woman’s sexuality is her own. It’s when they try to take it for themselves, use it, exploit it, abuse it, that the trouble begins, for the individual, and for humankind.
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN
Do you remember the time when your wife was away and your daughter had a nightmare and came to you for comfort in the middle of the night .... and in that most vulnerable of times you let her sleep beside you, and you abused her body.
You just don't do that!
Did you know to this very day, she sleeps with her clothes on when she’s alone?
Such a big man!
Do you remember that toy box? Did you know the little girl in her, used to hide in there while her trust was being violated, while you took her power from her?
You just don't do that, man!
Your name is demon, your name is alcohol and drugs, your name is the demonic insecurity of a thug, not love.
Such a big man!
Did you know you can turn your princess into a prostitute or a stripper?
Did you know that if she finds her perfect mate and has a happy and functional family, that one day, when she recalls...when she comes out, that even then you can destroy her life?
Such a big man!
Do you care what you have done, when her purity is taken away?
You controlled her, you forced your wife to sacrifice her, taught your children to expose and minimise her.
And now, through her succession of failed lovers, much of her life is spent trying to control herself and the world around her, never realizing it will never work. She hides the tender,creative, loving little girl, deep inside . She says she’s protecting the child, and perhaps she is, but the truth is, it’s out of insecurity and fear.
Such a big man!
You’ve brought out the negative in her. She’d hidden the bad memories away, you see, and now they’re coming back in screaming dreams and triggers of reality.
Such a big man!
